The father of my children was not into EMS. As a matter of fact, he made fun of it in the most horrible way. I got so sick of it. Laughing at first responders and Volly Fire Fighters. Being extremely derogitive towards me and my work. He wanted to know the life history of every person I worked around or with. He didn't want to hear about my calls I ran NOR did he want me to talk to friends about the calls I ran. He expected work to stay at work and that meant if I was stress from bad runs or bad calls, TOO BAD!! Leave it at the door, come home smiling and happy feed him and clean the house do his laundry pay his bills and go agin. NOT!!!! Lets not forget the extreme jealousy that he portrayed. He did NOT want me around any man what so ever and I was accused of all sorts of stuff with every person imaginable. It became the most horrilble of existence. Some thing had to change, and so Change I did!!
It's not always peaches and cream..... some say don't marry inside EMS, I say get some one that at least understands what is going on!!