interesting post, i'm a EMT in Philly with a transport company where probably 75% of our PT's are hospice and let me tell you when you have to deal with hospics nurses,facilities,social workers and family its an extremely stressful situation. There are so many people involved in it that things can get screwed up real easy. One being i come across full code hospice PT's all the time and that causes alot of confusionon who to call and also hospice PT's sometimes use the same ambulance service all the time, respite care, hospice at home who need to go into a facility for a test,injury etc. Alot of issue's do come up from the family because of different beliefs they have and may not be the PT's choice, i come across that ALOT. my best advise dont get wrapped up in it, you wont get anywhere and your only gonna beat yourself up over it and remember not all hospice are DNR so i think you the right decision was to continue in. i think i got your post right so hopefully this helps