If I understand correctly, then Medicgirl84 is BLS qualified. If I'm wrong about this then please forgive me. And before I continue, Medicgirl84, please don't take offence to the following. It's purely a statement and a rule I live by, especially coming from a training environment.
I try never to listen to the comments that are given by an individual of a lower qualification about an individual of a higher qualification. In South Africa, this would be construed as "spreading unfounded illusions about the probity of an individual registered with the HPCSA (eventhough no information leading to the possible knowledge of the medic in question may have been provided)" in which case, that individual would then also be investigated. What Medicgirl84 did here, did not start off as wrong, but, in my humble opinion, has been taken to the level of "wrongness". I agree with coming to the forum to post the topic, and thereby getting the opinion of other individuals of equal qualifications, but from what I can tell, this is continuing on to bad mouthing of said individual.
I understand your frustrations regarding your partner, Medicgirl84, but in my opinion again, if you felt that this medic is not performing up to a standard that has been predetermined, then it is your obligation to express your concerns to a higher authority (which, as far as I can tell has been done), and provide eyewitness accounts to any further questions that may be directed to you. Not "bad mouth" your partners 3 attempts at the IV (we all have our bad calls), etc.