I work with an openly gay female paramedic and really don't care what anyone is into sexually outside of work.
She is a very good medic, and it's fun to check out women with her. we'll see some hot woman somehwere and I'll say, "Um, dang... she was hot." and vice-versa.
When she started at this place, she went arounf putting up flyers for gay marches and stuff, and never hid that from anyone. I respect that a lot, because the only people who have "problems" with her sexuality are the shallow-minded bigots who I find to be offensive, to be honest.
One woman there atually tried to get me to rat this gay medic out for a Pt. refusal/ no Pt. situation, and I declined since I don't want to start a bunch of shit there and she has a beef with the lesbian girl, not me.
I have no love for the assholes in this world who want to further divide us all as people.
So having said that, just be yourself. Be gay, be straight, be into plushie-play, or whatever.
We're not living in the 50's, and if you live in a place where the people are lame and not very prgressive, MOVE.
It's your life, DO something about it.
If I was in your shoes, and some ass hle said, "What are you, a FAG?!?" (and I happened to BE gay,) I'd have said, "Hell yes, I am, you got a problem with that, asshole?!?"