"The worst is when you were married to someone who does not understand your job at all." [/font:e3deb28633]
Did you ever think about explaining??? I have to say that I may be new & maybe I'm doing the wrong thing by speaking up, but I am a spouse that is not a part of the job. My husband has been a volunteer since he was 16 & has been working for a private em co as an emt, but I can't understand. AND I WANT TO :x ! We have talked & I listen as best as I can handle everything he says but sometimes everything coming out of his mouth is over my head & he gets so frustrated that he goes to talk to someone else or is on some kind of website (like this one for ex) all the time pouring out everything. I know that there are things that he would prefer to keep to himself, for my benefit, but I don't want it to get bottled up. We've been together for almost 3yrs & married almost 1yr. I want it to last, and the fact that everything I hear about relationships like this not going far, well, being a spouse that has no idea...I need help understanding.
