Since I really haven't had any time to vent to anyone else about this whole situation, I figured putting it down on paper, so to speak, would make life a little easier. I'm not unlike most of you, averaging 4 days a week but a total hours alotment of about 72 per week. Why, well the plan was to help the now EX get back on her feet and through school! So I thought....
I was at work on Sunday, my birthday to boot, when I found out she had logged onto my back account (not sure how she got the info) transferred money out and when withdrew said money zero'ing my accounts. As if that wasn't enough she didn't just stop there. She took my entire IKEA bedroom set, sleep number bed, my hi def TV, my new IMAC, and my god damn dog!
Now I'm the type of guy that puts everything he has, his heart and soul, into a relationship and I work through problems when I know they exist. As a Paramedic it's my job to look after the well being, both physically and mentally, of those I contact on a daily basis. What I don't understand is both what I did and why this shit happens to me? We were together for 4 years.
My previous relationship was 7.5 years and she cheated on my 3 times, her excuse was that I wasn't home enough. Now granted I was working 96 hours a week because we were on a single income with a new baby and putting myself through paramedic school at the time.
I just don't get the female species, I'm a good fuc*ing guy. I don't get why this always happens to me!
I feel so bad for you. My EX- HUSBAND and i was married for 15 years when he decided i wasn't home enough. I found him and my so called best friend in my bed. I used to put in SEVERAL hours on a rig til that happen. It didnt take me long to divorce him. I now have a live-in boyfriend and we have been together for 3 years. He is also an EMT. The relationship is great. we know what each other goes thru and can understand. We work together same shifts. Maybe it would help if you find someone in ems that away they understand the hours and what you go thru. just a thought and good luck.
The Ex Cleaned Me Out
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I feel so bad for you. My EX- HUSBAND and i was married for 15 years when he decided i wasn't home enough. I found him and my so called best friend in my bed. I used to put in SEVERAL hours on a rig til that happen. It didnt take me long to divorce him. I now have a live-in boyfriend and we have been together for 3 years. He is also an EMT. The relationship is great. we know what each other goes thru and can understand. We work together same shifts. Maybe it would help if you find someone in ems that away they understand the hours and what you go thru. just a thought and good luck.