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You'd think it would be easier being married to somebody that used to be a volunteer firefighter, and that will be again soon. One would think that they would understand, but no.... of course not. My husband is jealous because he thinks I spend more time with my partner than I do with him. It's not my fault that we're scheduled together 24hrs a week. The other 16 I'm by myself. My husband's entire family, and all of our friends are in fire service. We all talk about the crap we deal with, and even discuss the relationships we have with those that we work with most closely. We've all come to rely on those people to keep us sane, and we do the same for them. My husband is the only one that doesn't understand that, and he's been there.