What is it with people and the internet? You, "flaming", are not real. Here. You're a virtual name, a number. What is the forum judging? Your words and thoughts.
I'm just gonna shoot from the hip here, and speak from my own mind. Although, I haven't given any "negative ratings", I could see why some would. Having never met you in person, we have a "screen name", and a character in words. So, if this were a book, you would just be like a character. Like, say, The Boxcar Children. AK would be Henry, you would be Benny. That was just for visual.
If another user is judging someone, they're not judging your personality, your human character.. They're judging your words in print. You're not speaking from your mouth. You're typing, you're not face to face, so you're probably typing in some instances with a smidge of rage or intense inner anger. That's okay, let it out big boy. ha ha. It's not because you're different, alone. We're all different. Nobody is alike, each individual on the face of this earth is unique in their own way.
So what, you're gay, that's who you are. But that doesn't define you. I'm gay, it doesn't define who I am. I'm damn good at what I do, and at the end of the day, that is all that matters.. As an EMT. I don't tell people who I've slept with, what I'm into, porn, sex, etc.. I may tell my friends, who respect me for who I am, but would I tell a co-worker that may or may not be a true to heart friend? No. If you want to let being gay define your entire personality, then you open yourself up to hearing what other people have to say.
Back to your statement, because if it doesn't have a "?", it isn't a question. Are you being judged for being Gay. Yes, your screen name is. You're being "difficult", not different. You're taking your view, plastering it on a wall per se; and when people give their opinion, instead of accepting it and moving on, you're resisting it, and pushing their head closer to your views.
At this point, I don't think your cause is really to get opinions, I think your only goal here is to get attention. In fact, I really don't believe that you're "representing" homosexuals. I believe you're a past user, that has returned in order to stir up trouble. All I see is, a little boy, stomping his feet, jumping up and down, crying, because nobody wants to see life his way. Get yourself a tootsie pop, and go watch cartoons.