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My significant other is an EMT who works long hours away from our family. I work strange hours as well and I've found several instant messages and phone calls on their phone while I'm at work....I found them while borrowing the phone to call someone. They are from a coworker who seems to be looking for more than just a shoulder to cry on. I don't want to sound like the insecure spouse, but how do you draw the line between helping a co-worker and hurting a marriage?